Recently there has been a lot on controversy over idea of breastfeeding, and being a stay at home mom. Which are things I do.
I just read this article http://www.yourtango.com/I-breastfed-a-baby-that-wasnt-mine-whats-the-big-deal, right after my son was born I found out that my friend was having trouble breastfeeding, and I didn't even have to think about it, I just offered to pump for her because she wasn't getting enough milk. She declined because she wanted to wait to see if it got easier for her. And it did, she really enjoys it now, what I don't understand is how we as mothers can be so judgemental if how other mothers raise their children.
I friend just posted on her blog about breastfeeding and how much she doesn't enjoy it, I don't believe that we should force other moms to do what we want, and then if they don't comply with it, we look down on them. Its their choice, their baby, and their lives. Sometimes one thing works for one mom but not another. She talked about how she is uncomfortable with breastfeeding in public and doesnt leave the house because of it. I think that if she doesn't enjoy it and doesn't want to breastfeed, then I think they should give her a bottle, and use formula. I feel as though she feels like she is being forced into it, and she should really stand for what she wants and not bend to others wishes.
Motherhood is a gift, and you should enjoy it! I love my sun, and sometimes its not sunshine and rainbows, but I love seeing my sons smile, his laugh, the little stories he tells me are the highlight of everyday. He is my greatest joy, and I look forward to everyday I spend with him.
Yes he cries, yes there are many poopy diapers, sleep is out of the question, and I can be very grumpy. But I still love it. I love all of it. I wouldn't trade motherhood for anything in the world!
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